Positive thinking and negative thinking are attitudes. They are points of view, and show the way people handle their affairs.
I cannot say this enough – it’s all in how you look at things and it’s all in YOUR attitude. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying crappy things don’t happen. They do happen. People get sick, people hurt you, people die. And I am in no way saying that you should be at your grammy’s funeral skipping around singing “tra la la, grammy’s dead.” And I’m certainly not saying you shouldn’t be sad if your grammy passes away. But the thing is, when something like that happens, what you SHOULDN’T do is get so caught up in the sadness that you forget about the amazing life your gram probably had, or the wonderful life she led. See, ATTITUDE. So when the crappy things happen, look at them and try and find a way to find a positive in them. It may take a while, but I have faith in you. You can do it, and when you do, it’ll make your life so much better.
